180. CCA Study Notes: Supporting Clients’ Families, Primary Caregivers, and Family Conflict

The Big Picture

Families often depend on one another for emotional, physical, or financial support. Illness or disability can change those relationships and create new responsibilities, stress, and conflict.

As a CCA, you work with many kinds of families. Your job is to respect the people your client considers family, support assigned care, and remain aware of family relationships without judging them or trying to solve personal conflicts yourself.

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Course Notes: Key Ideas You Need to Know

What Does Family Mean?

A family is a biological, legal, or social network of people who support one another. Family members do not always have to be related by blood or marriage. Close personal relationships can also form a family.

Families can include:

  • married or unmarried couples, with or without children
  • single parents and their children
  • grandparents raising grandchildren
  • partners who bring children from earlier relationships
  • divorced parents living with new partners
  • older parents, adult children, and grandchildren living together
  • LGBTQ2 couples, with or without children

Key fact: The client decides who they consider family. A support worker must respect that definition and must not impose personal values on the client.

Relationships and Dependence

A relationship is the connection between two or more people. Roles, feelings, and interactions shape that connection.

Dependence means relying on other people for support or being unable to manage without help. Family relationships often include different forms of dependence.

Examples include spouses depending on one another for companionship, emotional support, or financial support. Children depend on parents for physical, emotional, and financial needs. Older parents might rely on adult children for physical or emotional help.

Family Dynamics

Each family has its own way of relating, communicating, making decisions, and handling changes. Culture, language, and changing family roles can influence these family dynamics.

Some families work together and support the client. Other families experience conflict that the CCA does not fully know about.

Two family structures described in the course material are:

  • Patriarchal family: The elder male makes the major household decisions.
  • Matriarchal family: The oldest female makes the family decisions.

Illness can create major changes when the person who normally leads the household becomes ill. The CCA still needs to follow the client’s care plan. Having the health care team in the home can affect family privacy and add stress.

CCA action: Stay sensitive to changes in family dynamics and communicate concerns to your supervisor.

How the CCA Supports Families

A support worker might help families in several situations. The work might involve new parents and babies, children whose parent is ill or unavailable, or a family caring for a person with an illness or disability.

Providing basic care and support services can give family members more time and energy for their relationships.

What Is a Primary Caregiver?

A primary caregiver is usually a family member or close friend who takes responsibility for caring for a dependent person, usually in the person’s home.

A CCA might provide assistance or respite for the primary caregiver. For example, assigned housekeeping or meal preparation might give the caregiver more time to focus on the person receiving care.

Primary Caregivers May Have Mixed Feelings

Some caregivers feel relieved when help arrives. Others struggle with having health care workers in their home.

A caregiver might:

  • dislike interruptions to established routines
  • feel that personal privacy has been disturbed
  • feel unsuccessful because help is needed
  • wish they had completed certain tasks themselves

These feelings mean the CCA needs to approach the family with sensitivity and respect, which means showing acceptance and regard for another person.

Supporting the Caregiver Without Taking Over

Show family caregivers that you are there to help rather than judge or take control.

The CCA should:

  • complete assigned support work
  • adapt the work to the family’s standards and preferences
  • respect routines and schedules
  • respect the family’s usual ways of doing things

Role limit: Do not take on tasks that have not been assigned to you.

Safety: Consult your supervisor when you think a family preference might affect safety.

Illness and Disability Can Change Family Roles

When illness or disability affects a family, one family member often becomes the primary caregiver for another. This changes their relationship and creates new patterns of dependence.

The person receiving care might feel angry about depending on someone else. The caregiver might feel burdened by caregiving responsibilities along with work and other family demands.

How the Health Care Team Helps Families Cope

Specific health care professionals prepare family members to take on care responsibilities. They consider the physical, emotional, social, spiritual, and intellectual health of family members.

They also consider family relationships, conflict, and possible future conflict. Help might include improving family communication and problem-solving abilities.

A family conference might bring family members together to discuss how caregiving affects the entire family. A support worker might be asked to attend these conferences.

Family Conflict

Illness or disability can create significant stress for family members. Conflict might appear as:

  • irritation
  • anger
  • bickering
  • arguments

Conflict is not always obvious. Old disagreements can return when family members need to spend time together because someone is ill.

The health care team might help families work through difficulties. Members of palliative care teams receive special training to help people with emotional problems that are causing distress.

What the CCA Should Notice

When working with a family, pay attention to:

  • family relationships
  • conflict
  • communication difficulties
  • stressful situations
  • family interactions
  • possible signs of abuse

What the CCA Should Do During Conflict

Family interpersonal problems are not yours to solve.

In a stressful situation, supported actions include encouraging communication without taking sides and trying to calm a tense situation. One example involves suggesting that a family member briefly leave for coffee after angry words have been exchanged.

Agencies and facilities have policies for handling conflicts that workers might encounter.

Report: You must observe and report family interactions.

Safety: Stay alert for signs of abuse.