199. CCA Study Notes: Supporting Clients Who Speak of Abuse

The Big Picture

A client or child might tell you that someone has abused them. Your response should support the person and offer immediate help.

Stay calm. Listen carefully. Follow your employer’s guidelines and policies. You also need to know when to notify your supervisor and how to respect an adult client’s right to make their own informed choices.

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Course Notes: Key Ideas You Need to Know

What Abuse Means

Abuse is physical or mental harm deliberately caused by another person or people.

A client or child might tell you that abuse has happened. When this happens, listen, offer support, follow your employer’s guidelines and policies, and notify your supervisor at once.

Listen Carefully

Give the client your full attention.

Let the client explain what happened in their own words.

Recognize the client’s feelings while they speak.

Show That You Believe the Client

Reassure the client that you believe what they told you.

Stay calm. Do not react with anger or disgust.

Do not deny the problem or act as if it does not matter.

Do Not Blame the Client

Do not ask the client what they did to make the person who abused them angry.

A blaming question can make the client think they caused the abuse.

The important point is to respond without placing responsibility on the person who experienced the abuse.

Offer Help and Notify Your Supervisor

Tell the client that you will do what you are able to do to help.

Report: Notify your supervisor at once.

Follow your employer’s guidelines and policies. These workplace directions explain what support should be provided to people living with abuse.

Community Resources

Sorrentino identifies several types of community resources that might help people living with abuse:

  • police
  • women’s shelters
  • counselling services
  • telephone helplines
  • legal clinics

Continue Emotional Support

Keep supporting the client emotionally, regardless of the decision they make.

Your support does not depend on the client choosing the action you prefer.

Respect the Choices of Capable Adults

Adults who are able to make informed decisions have the right to decide for themselves.

They decide whether to:

  • continue living with the abuse
  • accept help
  • refuse help

Role limit: You cannot force a capable adult to make a particular decision or take a particular action.

Some capable adults choose not to accept help. You must respect that decision.

When a Person Cannot Make an Informed Decision

A person who is not able to make informed decisions must receive help from a professional.

Wrong IdeaBetter Idea
You should question the client about what they did to cause the abuse.Do not ask blaming questions.
You decide whether a capable adult accepts help.The capable adult decides for themselves.
Refusing help means you should stop supporting the client.Continue emotional support regardless of their decision.
Every person makes the same type of decision independently.A person unable to make informed decisions must receive professional help.